To simply the explanation why men look for whore is all about sex requirement. Rather than saying men are “horniness”, I would say “lust” to be more suitable when come to describe a person who has sex desire. We are all human beings, lust is one of our basic instincts like other creatures. Every creature has mating period to reproduce the next generation. The only different between human being is that we have intelligence. When we choose a partner to reproduce next generation, first we must have LOVE before LUST.
Looking for sex-service not only men, women did that too. This behavior is happened because of emptiness, lost of belief to love, temptation and so on. To avoid coming at this stage, we must first fill with contents to our heart with good and merciful thought in our mind. I believe that is a challenge for human beings to control our lust, we try not to simply release our sex-desire with someone, because we have intelligence.
That’s not totally correct to say a man who denies whoredom is a good man or a 100% husband or father. It is very hard to say a whoremaster is a bad guy. To say someone is bad or good need different perspectives. Can you say a widower looking for sex is wrong? I am not encouraging widower to buy sex. I think some of widowers who really take care of their kids well by giving love and good education to them, to make sure their children upright. But I hope they reduce the frequency of whoredom by looking inside our heart, filling good contents in our heart, reading more books, doing more good deeds, sooner or later, he will set himself free from struggle. I also see some irresponsible husband who never look for whoredom, they not even could not take good care of their children, they don’t respect women either. They don’t because they may think whore is not clean, they afraid of getting AIDS.
For those who think of whoredom, please stop and think for a while before you start. This desire arises because you tear apart love and lust. Try and put effort to put these two things together, if you want to have sex with someone, make sure you love them first. Put love at the first priority, lust at the second. In fact, without one of them couldn’t be complete in a relationship. Ultimately, if your love one is not ready to have sex with you, give them a sincere hug or kiss them like a kid will be enough, I believe the feeling of love is powerful than thrilling of sex, because:
Feeling of love lasts forever, thrill of lust won’t last for an hour.
7 comments:
That's good feedback, Frank. So ur post is against to mine base on view of points, is it?
Ideally is whatever writen by you.
Reality is whatever happen to you.
When you stand on others ppl position, u might have difference view.
Want to have love is always ideal; to love someone is reality; The wisdom to balance reality and ideal is a challenge, but doesn't mean not achievable. That's the direction what we go for. Love is our direction, not destination, so be prepared to face all the challenges in front with our partner.
Yes, Crystal. Your post arouse me to write this. Few words to express my thought for your topic are not enough. So, that's how this post come out.
Well sometimes, easier said than done. Especially when you have to face the problem: you live far from your wife a long time, in another country, and you are young husband...So this situation, if you can't control your sex requirement it's also unavoidable.
Then, have to see is that man is going for whoredom or meet his new love? If someone who focus on love, he may start new love there instead of looking whore to solve his sex requirement. Don't think every man will look for whore when he has lust. I have few friends, they encountered temptation, but they rejected them at last, because they knew she was not the love who love... Dinosaurs still exist, only hard to find one... Ha...
I still keep my sentence: Easier said than done.
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